First let me say Congratulations on your engagement!!

• I would first recommend pre-marital counseling
• Get to know each other well enough  
• Talk about expectations

Living arrangements

Children

Parents and In-laws

Financial plans

Career goals

Spirituality

Jobs

• Make good decisions as to who you will listen to.  

When others hear about someone getting married, you will find anyone and everyone has all types of advice for your marriage. Be careful…

• Listen , respect ,and and pay attention to each other’s views
• Discuss how you will resolve disagreements  if and when they arises
• Don’t ignore red signs.. If you observed any, pause and address them immediately.

In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.”(Proverbs 3-6)